Irit Elisha Coaching

If you’re tired of dating men who aren’t serious, and you want to start manifesting strong, secure, high quality men:

How to attract a high quality, successful man who is obsessed with you, in the healthiest, most stable way there is

So he puts you at the center of his world, chases you like crazy, and wants full commitment with you.

  • Without wasting hours on methods that miss the mark
  • Without chasing him
I want to manifest the right man
Irit Elisha smiling, in a black halter dress

Does this sound familiar?

You go on dates, and most of them are jerks. Or emotionally unavailable.

And above all, you feel he doesn’t really choose you. Not for who you are, but for what you give him.

You’re tired of falling for men who just want to “pass the time” with you.

And you feel it’s time to magnetize that one man you dreamed of when you were a little girl.

Illustration of a little girl in a lace veil, holding flowers and dreaming about her wedding day

It is absolutely possible to magnetize a high quality, successful man, and have him choose you again every single day.

Not because you please him or try harder. Because he truly loves you. In a healthy, stable, safe way.

You did manifest him. You just didn’t know what you were sending out.

If you’ve ever manifested things into your life, you know it works. You just need the right way to do it.

There are endless meditations and manifesting videos on YouTube. You tried them. None of them really worked.

Here’s why.
You attract what you give your attention, energy and focus to. And part of what you send out comes from what you believe deep down, without even noticing it.

You can picture your dream man every morning, and still believe somewhere inside that love just doesn’t work out for you. That belief sends out a message too.

Maybe you already met a good man, and something in you pulled away.

He was kind. He texted back. He was serious about you.

And he felt “boring.” There was no spark, so you let him go.

Meanwhile, the man who felt like magic from the very first date was the one who disappeared. He felt exciting because something about him felt familiar.

332

A study that followed 332 people over nine years found that a person’s new partner tends to have a personality similar to their ex’s.

Park & MacDonald, PNAS, 2019 (source)

Every dating coach tells you what to say to him. Nobody tells you what you’re sending out before you say a word.

What you expect from a man shapes how you act around him. And how you act shapes how he responds.

44% vs. 15%

A study that followed dating couples for a year found that when the woman anxiously expected to be rejected, the couple was almost three times as likely to break up: 44% compared with 15%.

Downey, Freitas, Michaelis & Khouri, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1998 (source)

In other words, you were manifesting all along. You just weren’t doing it on purpose.

Do you feel you never got chosen by a good man?

I’m going to tell you how I went from being an invisible woman in a lifeless marriage and a string of messed up relationships, to a safe relationship with a high quality man who is crazy about me, values me, and truly sees me

Irit lying on a couch, looking sad, during a hard time in her life
Then
Irit smiling next to her partner Oz
Today, with Oz

Today I’m in an amazing place. But it wasn’t always like this.

I went through a divorce. And I hoped I would finally find the partner who would respect me, love me, hold me, and lift me up.

What actually happened?

I walked into a toxic relationship. One that drained my confidence. My energy. My strength.

A relationship where I couldn’t even see myself anymore, and that I barely managed to get out of.

Not long after I got out, I walked right into another one just like it. Yes, really.

Another toxic relationship. Another relationship where I wasn’t seen. Wasn’t chosen. Where nobody even tried to understand me.

That’s when the thoughts started:

Maybe something is wrong with me?
Maybe something in me is broken?
How come I only attract these men?

I was out of ideas. I didn’t know what to do anymore. So I started looking for answers.

And if you think I hadn’t tried manifesting before, I had. It attracted a toxic relationship.

And I couldn’t understand what I was doing wrong.

And the truth? I finally found it. The method I teach today.

From the moment I started using this method, miracles started happening. Within a short time, I left the toxic relationship I was in.

And believe it or not, two weeks later, I met the love of my life.

You’ll laugh when you hear how we met. He reached out to offer me “photos for my business.” I said yes.

And from the very first moment, not only did I feel that he saw me and understood me, he made me feel the most beautiful and safe I had ever felt with a man.

Irit laughing at a restaurant table on her first date with her partner
This is a photo from our first date.
I had never smiled like that in my life.

I have a photo from after our third date. He simply showed up with a gift, and I burst into tears.

Irit smiling through tears, holding the orchid he brought her after their third date

Because after so many years of jumping from one toxic relationship to the next, this method saved me. How did I not know it sooner?

That’s why I decided to share it and teach it.

Oz kissing Irit on the cheek in front of a mirror
Oz and me

The method I found, and the one I teach today

Whatever frequency you’re on, that’s the kind of man you attract

Irit smiling at a café table with flowers

Think about a radio. When it’s tuned to one station, you hear that station’s songs. You can wish for a different song all day long, and the same songs keep playing until you change the station.

Doubt, fear,
pressure
Calm, trust,
love

Love works the same way. Everything you think, feel and believe about love sends out a frequency, and the men who match it are the ones who show up.

Dr. David R. Hawkins, a psychiatrist, mapped human emotions on a scale, from the lowest frequency to the highest. Here’s a simple version of it:

  1. Peace600
  2. Joy540
  3. Love500
  4. Acceptance350
  5. Willingness310
  6. Courage200
  7. Pride175
  8. Anger150
  9. Fear100
  10. Guilt30
  11. Shame20
Based on the Map of Consciousness by David R. Hawkins, Power vs. Force (1995).

When you live mostly in fear, guilt or shame around love, that’s the frequency you send out. You can hope, pray and picture him, and you’ll still meet men on that same frequency.

As you move up the scale, toward acceptance and love, what you attract moves with you. That’s what this course teaches you to do, one practice at a time.

Here’s how the method works

  1. 1
    Know exactly what you wantTurn every disappointment from your past into a clear picture of the love you want.
  2. 2
    Give it your attention every dayRead it, feel it, and start treating yourself the way the woman who already has it treats herself.
  3. 3
    Let it inClear away the doubt and the pressure, make room for him in your life, and let love come.

Change your frequency, and you change the kind of man you attract.

There is a way to do this. One that takes doing specific things nobody talks about online. Things only a few of the women I’ve met know.

I’ve distilled it for you here: the safe way that works again and again, and helps you magnetize the man of your dreams.

Sounds dreamy, right? Because it really is.

I want to change who I attract

No texting tricks and no games.
Just you, changing what you send out.

That’s why I created a short, special digital course

The Attraction Code

The method I used to manifest the love of my life, step by step

The Attraction Code on laptops, a tablet and a phone: the four parts of the course, the three bonus practices and the worksheets

What’s inside

  1. Part1

    The secret behind who you attract

    How the Law of Attraction really works, and why you can want a good relationship and still attract the opposite.

  2. Part2

    Get clear on the love you want

    Know exactly what you want, and give it your attention every day.

  3. Part3

    Clear away what blocks love

    Let go of the doubt and the pressure that hold back what you want.

  4. Part4

    Make room and let him in

    Make room for him, protect that space, and let love come.

🎁  My gifts to you

Plus 3 bonus practices, wrapped up just for you

They come with the course, at no extra cost.

Magnetizing Abundance

A practice to magnetize abundance into every part of your life, not only love.

Releasing the Past

A practice to let go of what old relationships left behind, so you stop carrying it into the next one.

Guided Visualization

A guided meditation to feel safe, loved and chosen, before he even shows up.

Is this course for you?

It’s for you if

  • You want to magnetize the man who is truly right for you, and you’re ready to do what it takes.
  • You want to invest in yourself and in your future.
  • You’re tired of dating jerks.
  • You’re tired of emotionally unavailable men.

It’s not for you if

  • You’re looking for a magic fix without doing anything.
  • You’re coming into this as a skeptic.
  • You don’t believe it’s possible.

Ready to manifest the man of your dreams?

  • The Attraction Code, the full course in four parts
  • A worksheet and an AI prompt after every lesson
  • Gift 1: Magnetizing Abundance
  • Gift 2: Releasing the Past
  • Gift 3: Guided Visualization

All of this, for only

Instead of $197

$47

And you get access right now.

Where should I send your access?

Next, you’ll complete your secure checkout. Privacy policy.

🔒 Secure checkout⚡ Instant access

30 day money back guarantee.
Go through the course. If you feel it wasn’t for you, email me within 30 days and you’ll get every dollar back.

Still wondering? Let’s clear it up

Is this just another manifesting course?

No. Most manifesting asks you to picture the man. This course starts with what you send out without noticing, the beliefs and feelings underneath. We change that first, and then you learn to call him in, step by step.

I’ve tried manifesting and it didn’t work. Why would this?

So had I. It brought me a toxic relationship. The missing piece was what I believed deep down, and what I was sending out every day without knowing it. That’s exactly what this course works on.

Is this about tricks to make him chase me?

No texting tricks and no games. Nothing here is about manipulating a man. It’s about changing what you broadcast, so the right man wants to chase you and the wrong ones lose their pull.

How does the course work?

Short video lessons in four parts, about 45 minutes of watching in total. After every lesson you get a worksheet and an AI prompt, so you can do the practice the same day, at your own pace. You get access right after checkout.

I’m 40. Is it too late?

I met the love of my life after a divorce and two toxic relationships. Your past isn’t proof of your future. It only shows what you’ve been sending out until now. And you’re far from alone: as of 2021, 25% of 40 year olds in the US had never been married, a record high (Pew Research Center).

Do I need to be single?

No. If you’re dating, or in something that isn’t going anywhere, the course helps you see your relationship pattern clearly and choose what comes next.

What if it’s not for me?

Then you don’t pay for it. Email me within 30 days of your purchase and you’ll get a full refund.

Is this therapy?

No. It’s education and coaching, and it isn’t a replacement for mental health care. If you’re going through a really hard time, please reach out for professional support.

How is this different from your private coaching?

The course gives you the method and the practices to do on your own. In my 12 week private coaching, The Love Code Method, we go through it together, one on one.